Let's Talk About Feeling Stuck

Let's Talk About Feeling Stuck

Phil McKnight 3 February 2022 Blog

Let’s talk about those times when you’re feeling ready to date but are unsure as to how to move forward, after having perhaps experienced difficult relationships with time wasters, two-timers, con artists and the like. You’re keen to find a serious relationship, but feel stuck and lacking confidence in your ability to progress towards a satisfactory future in a long-term relationship.

You’re past the stage of being satisfied with brief sexual encounters, have perhaps explored the darker side of yourself and your desires with enthusiasm and now feel ready to move on and settle down with a partner. You’re ready to enjoy a healthy, balanced way of life.

Professionally, you’re looking to raise your profile and focus on growing your career. You’ve little interest in wasting time on random gay sites. Your day-to-day life is good, full of friends and varied interests, but now you want the dating and emotional side of life to be equally as good. Your goal is for all areas of your life to be complete, where you’re able to cultivate and promote a positive, wholesome image to the outside world, which includes your personal life being happily settled.

At this stage of your career development, you’re not looking to risk any indiscrete alliances or have your personal life splashed across social media or in the news. Your preference instead is to meet someone who’s on a similar wavelength to you, who’s professional, discrete and has achieved a reasonable level of success in their life. But wanting and making this happen are two separate things, a dilemma when you’re feeling stuck and don’t know where to start!

Matchmakers have, for a long time, had their place in society, reinforcing dynasties and thrones, pairing people of similar status. In today’s society, we offer an elite matchmaking service, where successful pairings are the order of the day. Doing this ensures that those happy couples walk away enthusing about the quality of service they’ve received.

An exclusive, gay matchmaking service is an especially valuable addition to today’s scene, and certainly for busy, high-profile, professional people. Even in the 21st century, not everyone wants to be publicly ‘out’ or risk their hit and miss dating experiences becoming media fodder. Like many people, you may prefer to keep your personal life private, and that should be your prerogative.

Our service is committed to respecting that, which is why we check out all our clients personally. We individually vet, interview and match everyone, so offering top-notch service, protecting your privacy, confidentiality and integrity. Your happiness is our reputation.

But, we’re also aware that whilst you may be highly successful in many areas of your life, issues in your personal life may have hindered the success of previous relationships. Have you perhaps been over-invested in other people’s approval, judgement or opinion of you? Do your insecurities eventually overflow into suspicious or possessive behaviour? Improved confidence levels are important when you’re out, proud and hoping to grow a new relationship.

Dealing with negative patterns that may arise and then hi-jack the different stages of a relationship is important. And whilst you may have been aware that this needed to happen, you may have felt till now unable and stuck as to how to remedy it.

Part of our service can include ongoing support, coaching and therapy. Our many years in the field of matchmaking mean that we’ve witnessed the many relationship concerns that you may have experienced and have assembled the best team to support you on your journey to a happy, successful future, with the best person by your side. Again, your happiness is our reputation.

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